Advantage And Disadvantage Of Long Distance Relationship

Hello guys, today we will be discussing about long distance relationship, the advantages and the disadvantages of long distance relationship. In this era of social network, long distance relationship has become more popular among young people in the society.

However long distance relationship is a situation where to close people are not in the same geographical areas. Long distance relationship occurs sometimes when two people who are close before separates due to work relocation, search for greener pasture, parent location, and many reasons. Meanwhile maintaining a long distance relationship need extra work and commitment between partners.

Here am going to highlight 10 advantages and 10 disadvantages of long distance relationship in this article, so that you can have an idea if you are will be going into a long distance relationship or if you will stay on your lane.

Here are the 10 advantages of long distance relationship below

1. It gives enough privacy
2. It gives you enough time to face your career
3. Ability to cope with your spouse absence in the future
4. You will be able to build trust
5. It gives time to hang out with families and friends
6. Less disagreement
7. Ability to think and act alone
8. You will appreciate each other more
9. You can cope more with aggressive partner
10. Makes you relate with others

Now let me explain the highlighted point to make it more clearer.

1. It gives Enough privacy

Long distance relationship gives enough privacy as your partner won't be around to disturb you. You can have enough private time to carry out other task. Some people love privacy and if you are they the type that loves privacy then you can opt in to a long distance relationship.

2. It gives you enough time to fave your career

If your career demands more time, then long distance relationship will help you in chasing your career and also maintaining a relationship. Long distance relationship where your partner is now where close to you will give you more time to focus on your career.

3. Ability to cope with your spouse absence in the future

Being in a long distance relationship will give you an idea of how to cope with the absence of your spouse later in the future. After getting married to your spouse and he or she is later absence due to some crucial reasons, since you have the experience already, you will be able to cope with his or her absence later in the future.

4. You will be able to build trust

Yes, being in a long distance relationship will enables you to build trust. You dont even have a choice, If you want your relationship to work out fine, then you will learn how to build trust over time.

5. It gives you time to hang outwith families and friends

Long distance relationship will give you more time to hangout with your families and friends since your partner is not in your geographical area, so you have more time to hangout with them.

6. Less disagreements

Unlike when your partner is with you, you have more argument than when they are not with you. When your partner is far away, you will have see Less and complain less. And this often will reduce disagreement between both parties.

7. Ability to think and act alone

When you are in a long distance relationship, believe me you will build a self confident that even if your partner is far away, you can think and act alone. May be your spouse is not available or is not reachable as at when you want to take a crucial decision which has time limit. Because you dont want to loose out, you will be forced to think fast and act alone. With that you will Able o think alone without the help of your spouse. Though am not condemning your spouse agreeing together on crucial decisions, it goes a long way but if your spouse is not available and you need to act fast on a decision, long distance will help your thinking ability to be sharp, because you won't want to make mistake and be blamed later.

8. You will appreciate each other more

Sometimes you dont appreciate people you see often. If you are in long distance relationship with someone you reunion counts and matters because its being long you see each other and you will be eager to see how your spouse looks like. You will appreciate each other more.

9. You can cope more with aggressive partner

Being in a long distance relationship with a spouse will help you to cope more with their aggressive character. Since your spouse is not with you, you will be able to withstand his or her aggressive behavior and later caution him or her.

10. Makes you relate with others

Not being with your spouse gives you more time to relate more with others in your environment. Since your partner is not around you, you can relate well even with opposite gender without jealousy so far you dont have any hidden agenda.

Now let me list out some disadvantages to look at when considering a long distance relationship.

Here are 10 disadvantages of long distance relationship.

1. It can lead to cheating.

2. Long Distance relationship is more expensive. You will spend more on call cards and traveling.

3. It can lead to loneliness.

4. Trust issues and constant misunderstandings.

5. It can leads temporary separation.

6. Different rules and regulations from both partners.

7. Fear of leaving each other.

9. It requires more work and commitment.

10. It can be boring at times.

So, distance relationship have its own ups and downs. If you are ready to settle for long distance relationship then, you have to consider the advantages and disadvantages of this relationship. Know if you can cope with the those things listed above or not. Then you can decide on what to do and how to handle a long distance relationship.


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